概述： 你是如何“解讀”他人的？ Hints: 無
Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them. Consciously or unconsciously, we show our true feelings with our eyes, faces, bodies and attitudes, causing a chain of reactions, ranging from comfort to fear. Think about some of your most unforgettable meetings: an introduction to your future spouse, a job interview, an encounter with a stranger. Focus on the first seven seconds. What did you feel and think? How did you "read" the other person? How do you think he read you? You are the message. For 25 years I've worked with thousands who want to be successful.
有研究顯示，我們對他人的判斷是根據我們最初遇到他們的七秒鐘里所進行的無聲交流形成的。無論是有意識還是無意識，我們都會用我們的眼神、面部表情、形體動作和態(tài)度來表現(xiàn)我們的真實情感，從而使他人產生從舒適到害怕等一連串反應。 想想那些讓你最為難忘的會面：被介紹給你未來的妻子或丈夫、一次求職面試、與陌生人的一次邂逅。將注意力集中在最初的七秒鐘，你當時有何感想？你是如何“解讀”他人的？ 你認為他又是如何解讀你的？ 你本人就是信息。25年來，我在工作中和數千個想要成功的人打過交道。