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Any way you can get across the message "We're in this together" can help bridge gaps that conflicts might otherwise create. Keep calm. You can easily destroy your credibility by getting angry or too excited during a conversation. Instead of "You're ruining your life!", say "I'm concerned about what might happen if ..." "What do you think you might do in a situation like that?" Don't apply double standards. Teenagers pay close attention to double standards. Don't expect them to follow rules you don't follow yourself. Whether it's about checking in by the phone, putting things away or drinking out of the milk carton, "Do as I say and not as I do" will not improve the relationship.
不論你用什么方式，只要能將“這是我們共同的事”這一信息傳達(dá)給孩子，就有助于彌合本可能由沖突帶來的鴻溝。 保持冷靜。交談時(shí)生氣或者太激動(dòng)，你就可能輕易地毀了自己的可信度。不要說“你毀了你的一生！”而要說“我擔(dān)心如果......會(huì)怎么樣。在這種情況下，你想你可能怎么辦？” 不要使用雙重標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。青少年非常警惕雙重標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。別指望他們遵守你自己都不遵守的規(guī)則。無論是打電話報(bào)平安，還是叫他們收拾東西，或用奶盒喝牛奶，“照我說的做”而不是“照我做的做”是不會(huì)改善關(guān)系的。