【專八mini系列】對(duì)話中常見(jiàn)的五大誤區(qū)以及解決方案(6/6)
來(lái)源:滬江聽(tīng)寫酷
2014-01-29 04:00
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Hints?
Problem: Clinging ?to one topic for hours
Solution: To be geniunely interested and make the conversation more ____(填空不寫)???
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Another way is just to be genuinely interested. As Dale Carnegie said "You can make more friends in two months by becoming really interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you, which is just another way of saying that the way to make a friend is to be one." Opening up a bit and not clinging desperately to one topic will make the conversation feel more relaxed and open. You will come across like a person who can talk about many things with ease. As you've probably experienced with other people, this quality is something you appreciate in a conversation and makes you feel like you can connect to that person easily. Okay, just to sum up. Today we've talked about five easily made mistakes in a conversation. These mistakes can be well-improved if you follow our solutions. Although the list is not complete, I hope it would be helpful.
另一種方法就是要真正感興趣。正如戴爾?卡耐基說(shuō)過(guò):“如果你對(duì)他人真正感興趣的話,你兩個(gè)月內(nèi)所結(jié)交的朋友比你花兩年時(shí)間讓他人對(duì)你感興趣所結(jié)識(shí)的朋友多得多,可以說(shuō),以朋友之誼對(duì)待他人才是交友之道?!辈灰兄?jǐn),不要死抓住一個(gè)話題否則會(huì)讓談話變得拘束、狹隘。你遇到一個(gè)侃侃而談的人。當(dāng)你和其他人打過(guò)交道之后,你發(fā)現(xiàn)在談話中能侃侃而談?wù)侵档眯蕾p的地方,你會(huì)覺(jué)得更容易接觸那個(gè)人。好了,讓我們來(lái)總結(jié)下。今天我們談?wù)摿嗽趯?duì)話中容易犯的五個(gè)錯(cuò)誤。盡管我們的解決方法仍不夠全面,但是如果你們遵循這些做法的話,這些錯(cuò)誤將可以得到改善。希望它們對(duì)你們會(huì)有所幫助。
翻譯by sugarle