父愛，偉岸如青山；圣潔如冰雪；溫暖如嬌陽；寬廣如江海！
Dad never tried to hug or kiss me when I was a child. And of course, he never said "I love you" to me, either. Maybe it's a Chinese cultural thing, or maybe that's the way my dad was. But whenever I felt defeated, sad or lonely, dad was always there. Dad was a man of few words, but I always liked to talk to him, and I could always feel a very special connection to him. As I got older, I had a huge crush on a girl. She was tall and beautiful, with long hair. One day, I walked up to her and blurted out, “you are so beautiful baby.” “ I love you so much. Please be my wife! ” She was afraid and ran away with tears in her eyes. She told my teacher, and my teacher was so angry that she made me stay after school, and called my dad to take me home. My first love was over, and that year I was 7 years old. On the way home, dad was very quiet. It seemed that nothing had happened. Finally I broke the silence and asked him, “Daddy, did I do something wrong?” Dad paused for a while as he always did and said quietly, “Son, you did nothing wrong, except that it's too early for you to pursue girls.” “ Daddy, do you think I could marry a tall and beautiful girl with long hair when I grow up?” I asked. Dad gave me one of his rare laughs and said, “Of course you could. You are so handsome! Just like your handsome father. ” For the first time, I realized that dad had a sense of humor, although he was always quiet.
我小的時候爸從來不抱我，從來不親我，當然他也從來不說“我愛你”這三個字。也許這是中國文化的問題，也許爸就是這種人。但每當我受挫、傷心或孤獨無助時，爸總會在默默地關心我。老爸話不多，但我總喜歡有什么話都給他說，同是我也總是能感到和老爸之間那種無法言喻的特殊關系。 等我大一些的時候我瘋狂愛上了一個女孩子。她又高又漂亮，還有一頭長發(fā)。終于有一天，我忍不住了，走到她面前，很快地說道，“親愛的，你太漂亮了！我太愛你了！做我老婆吧！”沒想到她嚇壞了，抹著眼淚跑掉了，然后就告訴了老師。老師當時非常生氣，放學后沒讓我回家，并給老爸打電話，讓他過來領人。我的初戀就這樣夭折了，那年我七歲。回家路上老爸非常沉默，好像什么事都沒發(fā)生。最后我打破了沉默，問道，“爸爸，我做錯什么了嗎？”和往常一樣，老爸沉默了一下，輕輕地說到，“兒子，你沒做錯什么，只是你這個年齡追女孩子有點早。”“爸爸，你覺得我長大能娶一個又高又漂亮，頭發(fā)很長的老婆嗎？”我又問道。老爸聽了很難得地大笑了一下，說道，“當然能了！你那么帥，跟你老爸一樣帥！”我第一次感到，老爸雖然話不多，但還是有些幽默感的。