How do you tell her "I love you" this Valentine's Day? With diamonds. Withperfume(香水). With flowers. 今年情人節(jié)打算帶給她什么驚喜？鉆石首飾？香水？還是鮮花？
Let's face it, the shopper needs to only turn on a television or flip(vt. 擲, 彈, 輕擊) open a magazine for inspiration. 別為難了，還是打開(kāi)電視或者翻翻雜志來(lái)找點(diǎn)靈感吧！
But when it comes to finding the perfect gift for men, the process requires a little more work, a little more creativity. 不過(guò)如果要為你的“他”選一份完美的情人節(jié)禮物，可能得多費(fèi)點(diǎn)力氣、多花點(diǎn)心思。
"I think you have to know your guy. You have to know who you're dealing with," psychotherapist(心理治療師) and lifestyle coach Stacy Kaiser said. 心理治療師、生活方式教練斯達(dá)西·凱瑟說(shuō)：“首先你要了解你的男人，你要知道他的喜好。”
"It should be about what they want, not what you think they should want." “你要知道他想要什么，而不是你認(rèn)為他應(yīng)該想要什么。”
It can be a difficult finding the right gift. It can be a token（n. 象征, 標(biāo)志;證明; 信物 ）or expression and, most important, heartfelt, psychologist Joyce Brothers said. 心理學(xué)家喬伊斯·布羅澤說(shuō)，選對(duì)一份禮物很難。這個(gè)禮物可以是一樣?xùn)|西、一句表達(dá)，最重要的是，要真心真意。
Here are five things that say "I love you" to that special guy you want to be your Valentine. 若想給你的他送上一份情人節(jié)禮物，可參考以下五種選擇：
Gadgets: Kaiser said gadgets, electronic or otherwise, are the No. 1 gift for men, such as a video game system, a flat-screen television or a LCD photo frame. 小玩意：凱瑟說(shuō)，小玩意、電子產(chǎn)品等類(lèi)似的東西是男性禮物的首選，比如，電子游戲系統(tǒng)、平面電視或液晶相框。
Lingerie: Often viewed as a gift for her, it really is a gift for him, said lingerie designer Mary Green. "Men seem to have very specific ideas about what they like on women," she said. 內(nèi)衣：內(nèi)衣設(shè)計(jì)師瑪麗·格林說(shuō)，內(nèi)衣通常被認(rèn)為是送給女性的禮物，實(shí)際上，送給男性也不錯(cuò)。她說(shuō)：“男性對(duì)于女性的穿戴似乎總有十分獨(dú)到的觀點(diǎn)。”
Functional: If a man is a sports fan, buy tickets for the two of you to go to a game, Kaiser said. Or if he enjoys cooking, buy him a gift for the kitchen. 實(shí)用的東西：凱瑟說(shuō)，如果他是一個(gè)體育迷，那就買(mǎi)兩張票，和他一起去看比賽。如果他喜歡烹飪，那就買(mǎi)一樣廚房用品送給他。
Gimmicks（小發(fā)明; 決竅 ）: The best gift, relationship experts say, is not always store-bought. In many cases, a simple gesture can say "I love you." 你自己的小發(fā)明：兩性關(guān)系專(zhuān)家認(rèn)為，最好的禮物往往不是在商店里買(mǎi)的。在很多時(shí)候，一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的動(dòng)作便能夠傳達(dá)愛(ài)意。
Consider a romantic gesture, such as a foot rub or body massage, Brother said. 布羅澤說(shuō)，可以嘗試一下如足底按摩或身體按摩等浪漫的“動(dòng)作”。
Say it with words: Brothers said buying a card on Valentine's Day is not the way to say "I love you." She said the giver should write a romantic note to include in the card. Better yet, she said, tell the man how much you adores（v. 崇拜, 愛(ài)慕）him. 言語(yǔ)表達(dá)：布羅澤說(shuō)，送一張空白賀卡并不能表達(dá)愛(ài)意。要在賀卡里夾上一張浪漫字條，告訴他你有多么愛(ài)他。

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