A survey posted by Otome Suguren, a blog about love and relationships in Japan, revealed the top ten things that Japanese boyfriends wish their girlfriends would stop doing. The top three could apply to boyfriends anywhere:

最近，由日本大受歡迎的兩性博客Otome Suguren發(fā)起的一項調(diào)查顯示，日本男生有以下幾項最不喜歡自己女友做的事兒。排名前三項的，幾乎所有被調(diào)查的男生都有提到：


1. "Accusing me of cheating when I'm not;"

1. 沒理由地說我背著她搞三搞四！（滬江小編按：看來日本男生自尊心還挺強。不過也難怪，被人冤枉總是不好受的。所以姑娘們，我們也不能那么敏感，還是要多多相信自己的男友哦?。?/div>
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2. "Talking too much about former boyfriends;"

2. 講太多前男友的事。（滬江小編按：恩~被拿來比較當然不舒服啦。女孩子們，男生們要面子，我們也要給足?。。?/div>
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3. "Unpredictable mood swings."

3. 情緒變化太大。（滬江小編按：前一秒還開開心心的，后一秒就陰晴不定。男生那么粗心大意，怎么能注意到我們生氣的原因。哎，就原諒他們吧。）

But a few certainly seem unique, or at least evocative, of gender relations in the Land of the Rising Sun. Take number six, for example: "Glancing at her cell phone while we're on a date." It's hard to imagine this NOT happening in a city as plugged-in as Tokyo.

除了排名前三公認的討人厭的行為以外，還有一些個別的例子也是不受男生歡迎的哦。比如第六位的“在跟我約會的時候不停瞄手機”——哎呀呀，這又是嫉妒心理作祟。女生也有私人生活，就不能和朋友發(fā)發(fā)短信嗎？


And number eight: "Demanding I find the same things 'kawaii' (cute) as she does." It may not be uniquely Japanese, but it sure seems like a natural fit in the nation that gave birth to Hello Kitty.

還有第八位的“要我喜歡她也喜歡的可愛東西”——亞洲的女生都是可愛派路線的啊，更別說hello kitty的誕生地日本了！男生們，這個要求可就太過分了啊！

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