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Love is meant to be failed!
愛(ài)總是被辜負(fù)。

Why?Why love is meant to be failed?
為什么？為什么愛(ài)總是被辜負(fù)？

Have you ever thought about this? May be yes or may be no.
你仔細(xì)想過(guò)這個(gè)問(wèn)題嗎？也許想過(guò)，也許沒(méi)有。

OK, what I have thought about this is, why our love fails? Whenever we fall in love we forget everything.
好吧，對(duì)于這個(gè)問(wèn)題，我的想法是，為什么愛(ài)會(huì)被辜負(fù)？因?yàn)槲覀円坏嬋霅?ài)河，就會(huì)忘卻一切。

Yes everything, even our own self as well.
是的，一切。甚至我們自己。

This is the one of the main reasons for life failure.
這就是鑄就影響你一生的大錯(cuò)的主要原因。

Everything is important in our life.
我們生活中每一樣人和事物都是非常重要的。

Mother, father, our studies, friends, siblings etc, and we always ignore these things after getting committed. Think about it.
媽媽、爸爸、學(xué)業(yè)、朋友、還有手足，等等等等。然而，只要我們墜入愛(ài)河，就總是忽略了他們。想想是不是這樣？

There are also others love in our life which never fails.
當(dāng)然，在我們的生活中也有永不會(huì)被辜負(fù)的愛(ài)。

Have you ever heard about our love with parents is failed or love with friends or sibling failed.
你聽(tīng)說(shuō)過(guò)母愛(ài)、父愛(ài)、反芻之愛(ài)、知己之愛(ài)、同胞之愛(ài)被辜負(fù)的嗎？

No, this kind of love never gets failed because we give them their quality of time but while commitment with boy or a girl we start ignoring everything.
不，因?yàn)樵谶@些愛(ài)的關(guān)系中，我們付出的是有節(jié)制、有意義的時(shí)間，而愛(ài)上一個(gè)男孩或者女孩時(shí)，我們總是忘卻了一切。

One more reason of getting love failed is over possessiveness .
愛(ài)往往被辜負(fù)的另一個(gè)原因是過(guò)度的占有欲。

Why to rule on other's life. Do we like others to rule on us?
為什么要對(duì)其他人的生活施加控制呢？你喜歡其他人對(duì)你發(fā)號(hào)施令嗎？

Now what is this matter that you love whom, you have the right on him or her. His or her freedom is your right. If he or she goes anywhere, he or she should tell you.
所以，為什么一旦你愛(ài)上某個(gè)人，你就自詡對(duì)他/她有了控制權(quán)，自詡他/她的自由受你操控，自詡他/她無(wú)論去任何地方，都應(yīng)該告訴你——這又是什么道理呢？

Common guys! What is this? This is not love.
好好想想吧，朋友們！這樣的感情到底是什么？這不是真正的愛(ài)！

Love means to respect each other's feelings, emotions, give space to each other.
好好想想吧，朋友們！這樣的感情到底是什么？這不是真正的愛(ài)！

Love means spirit of giving.
愛(ài)意味著付出的精神。

Give love and respect, give happiness, give whatever you have and whatever you can.
付出愛(ài)與尊重，付出幸福，付出你所擁有的一切，你所能付出的一切。

Start giving and start enjoying your relation.
當(dāng)你開(kāi)始付出，你就能從一段戀情中獲得幸福了。

People please adjust if you are in a relationship because one cannot adjust alone.
朋友們，當(dāng)你正在一段戀情中時(shí)，請(qǐng)改變你自己。因?yàn)橐粋€(gè)人孤身一人的時(shí)候，是沒(méi)法改變自己的。

The train runs on the track and the track are made of two iron rods .
火車必須在鐵軌上行駛，鐵軌是由兩條鋼軌組成的。

Roads never interact with each other, even though the train runs on them easily, it is the same in life.
兩條鐵軌之間從沒(méi)有過(guò)交集，盡管如此，火車還是能在他們之上輕松運(yùn)行。在人生中亦是如此。

Two people are totally different, but they together live in a house.
兩個(gè)人可以決然不同，但他們?nèi)阅芄餐睢?/div>

Why? Because of mutual love, mutual understanding, mutual adjustments and sacrifices for each other etc.
為什么？因?yàn)閷?duì)彼此的愛(ài)，因?yàn)閷?duì)彼此的理解，因?yàn)樗麄優(yōu)楸舜俗龀龅母木幒蜖奚?/div>

Guys "LOVE IS NOT MEANT TO BE FAILED, WE LACK IN ITS FULFILLMENT."
朋友們，記住，不是愛(ài)注定了要被辜負(fù)，而是我們不懂得如何讓愛(ài)圓滿。

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（翻譯：小木）