男人當(dāng)爸爸之后會有什么變化?
作者: Hidreley
來源:BoredPanda
2018-06-05 00:45
Becoming a parent is a truly life-changing moment and a London-based photographer captured the emotional moments that men go through before and right after becoming fathers.
為人父母確實是一個對你的人生產(chǎn)生顛覆性影響的時刻,一位來自倫敦的攝影師記錄下了這一令人感動的時刻,鑒證了男人為人父之前、之后的變化過程。
Tom Oldham spent 72 hours capturing the different emotions that fathers-to-be go through before and after entering the delivery room.
Tom Oldham花了72小時捕捉那些準(zhǔn)爸爸進產(chǎn)室前和進產(chǎn)室后的情緒變化。
“These portraits capture a really powerful moment in the lives of these men and aim to showcase the enormity of becoming a parent,” said the photographer about his project.The portraits all show tense ‘befores’ and he happy, relaxed, even surprised ‘a(chǎn)fters’ of newly made dads.
“這些照片捕捉住了那些男人生命中非常有分量的一個時刻,它們能夠展現(xiàn)為人父母的意義之巨大,”這位攝影師如此談?wù)撟约旱捻椖俊T谶@些相片中,孩子出生前爸爸們的表情都非常緊張,而新成為爸爸后,他們的表情變?yōu)橛鋹偂⒎潘?、甚至是驚喜。
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Hector Adebambo, 32, from Bromley
Hector Adebambo,32歲,來自英國布羅姆利
“For me, becoming a dad just kicked in naturally, it feels right. I’ve been speaking to my son for nine months and he’s finally here.”
“對我來說,成為人父是一件自然而然,水到渠成的事情。我跟我的兒子說了九個月的話,現(xiàn)在他終于出來了?!?/div>
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Andy West, 36, from Forest Hill
Andy West,36歲,來自福里斯特希爾
“I’ve instantly realized that having a child is going to have such a profound effect because I’m always going to be responsible for another person.”
“我瞬間意識到,為人父是一件意義重大的事情,因為我必須要對另一個生命負責(zé)?!?/div>
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Toan Lam, 34, from New Cross
Toan Lam,34歲,來自倫敦新十字
“When my son was born, my outlook on life changed instantly and I knew that I would need to be there every step of the way to see him grow. Becoming responsible for another human being is the most surreal experience; I can’t quite put it into words but I hope the portraits convey the magnitude of this feeling.”
“當(dāng)我兒子出生的時候,我的人生觀瞬間改變了,我知道在他成長的每一步我都必須在場。對另一個生命負責(zé)是一種非常神奇的體驗。我無法用語言表達,希望我的照片能表達我這份厚重的感受?!?/div>
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Pedro Diego Fernandez, 34, from Sydenham Hill
Pedro Diego Fernandez,34歲,來自英國西德納姆
“The birth was much more overwhelming than I expected but I felt amazing as soon as I held my healthy son and saw him open his eyes. I just want to be the best man for my partner and baby.”
“生產(chǎn)的過程比我想象的要驚心動魄。不過當(dāng)我抱著自己健康的兒子,看著他睜開眼睛的時候,我感到無與倫比的幸福,為了我的妻子和孩子,我要成為最好的男人?!?/div>
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Federico Grillo, 34, from Greenwich
Federico Grillo,34歲,來自英國格林威治
“After the birth, as the adrenalin was wearing off, I felt like time had slowed down. I was holding my son and it just felt very peaceful. I know that fatherhood will motivate me to get the best for my family.”
“在孩子出生后,我的腎上腺素終于回歸正常水平,我覺得時間放慢了速度。我抱著我的兒子,感覺非常安寧。我知道父親的角色會推動我為自己的家庭爭取最好的生活?!?/div>
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Tom Chappell, 35, from Hindley Green
Tom Chappell,35歲,來自欣德利
“I think my priorities will change significantly now that I’m a dad. We only had ourselves to think about before but now everything will be considered with my daughter in mind… and rightly so.”
“我覺得成為父親之后我的生活重心會發(fā)生深刻的變化。過去我只會考慮到我們的二人世界,而現(xiàn)在對任何事我都會把孩子考慮在內(nèi)。而且我覺得這樣做很有道理?!?/div>
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